Too Much ‘Good Effort’ Praise Backfires Too
Xu et al., Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology, 2024 (+ Mueller & Dweck, 1998)
Topics: Discipline & Praise · Homework & Learning · DOI ↗
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⚠ General information only — this page explains one study and isn't medical or parenting advice for your specific child.
Across 378,222 students, parents' homework involvement was weakly linked to lower achievement — except autonomy support, the one kind of help that was linked to better results.
This three-level meta-analysis combined 28 studies (32 samples, 378,222 participants) on parental homework involvement and student achievement, separating kinds of involvement — autonomy support, content help, control, and frequency of help.
A meta-analysis of mostly observational studies: phrased as linked to. It does not prove that helping causes lower achievement — struggling students also attract more help, which can pull the average down.
Swap taking over for autonomy support: sit nearby, ask “what's your plan?”, and let your child lead while you stay available.
The one approach linked to better results was autonomy support — being available and backing your child's own plan. The finding argues against taking over, not against being present.
Because help often arrives when a child is already struggling. That reverse direction is exactly why we say “linked to”, not “causes”.
“Parental homework involvement and students' achievement: A three-level meta-analysis” by Jianzhong Xu, Shengli Guo, Yuxiang Feng, Yidan Ma, Yichi Zhang, Jose C. Nunez, Huiyong Fan. Psicothema, 36(1), 1-14, 2024.
DOI: https://doi.org/10.7334/psicothema2023.92 ↗ · Video: 3:45 · Coming soon to youtube.com/@ParentingByScience
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Stay close, hands off the pencil: “What's your plan?” plus your availability is the help this evidence actually supports.
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Xu et al., Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology, 2024 (+ Mueller & Dweck, 1998)
Topics: Discipline & Praise · Homework & Learning · DOI ↗
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